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But as pegging has continued to make its way into the popular consciousness thanks, Broad City! And it's good news, considering the healthy effects experts say pegging allows for. First, there's the physical pleasure to for: For men, pegging targets the prostate gland essentially the male G-spot , and many describe the resulting sensation as a full-body orgasm, says Alicia Sinclair, sex educator and CEO of anal-sex-product company b-Vibe.
Cheers to intimacy. While it's great that the term is now understood across demographics, knowing your way around a strap-on is another issue entirely. And whether you already know you want to give it a try or still have some lingering questions, you're covered below in the veritable Pegging lesson.
And by in-depth, I mean in-depth. For instance, if your partner wants to try it to play with submission and dominance, the act may play out differently than if they just liked recent butt-centric action and wanted to explore the sensation further. Maybe even incorporate pegging into your sexting or dirty talk so that you can fantasize about the act together.
Being able to really talk about pegging is a good that you're on your way to being ready to try it IRL. Now, for the accessories: a dildo, a harness, and lube I hear CBD varieties are worth trying. If you have access to a sex-toy shop, it's a great place to start.
Note: bigger is not better! Other features to prioritize: body-safe silicone, a phthalate-free label , and something smooth in texture. There are a lot textured dildos, which you and your partner may eventually work up to, but Sinclair says smooth allows for a simpler starting point.
For your starter harness, Sinclair recommends an adjustable model like this one from Spareparts because it can help you feel more in control. That said, the first priority is finding one that makes you feel sexy, so if an underwear-style harness, like offerings from Rodeoh , is your preference, go with that. And depending on the store you visit, you might be able to try on different options. Pro tip: Once you get the strap-on, practice wearing it around the house, just like you might break in a new pair of heels.
Get used to the weight of the toy, and maybe even practice thrusting, since Sinclair notes the movement can be unfamiliar to many women. Start with a finger and then two fingers or a butt plug. If you go the finger route, White suggests experimenting with a few different types of strokes: in and out, circles, side to side. She says if you can feel tissues softening, it's a good that the nervous system is relaxing, which means your partner may be ready for you go deeper and apply more pressure. Adam Lewis, co-founder of sex-toy company Hot Octopuss , suggests also trying to locate the prostate, by curling your finger when you're an inch or two in, which can make finding it later on with a dildo easier.
This allows for kissing and eye-contact hello, intimacy. A spooning position works, too, by both people lying on their side, facing the same direction. And just a reminder: Being the pegger doesn't mean always being the one in control. Basically, pleasure is contagious—so lean in. Get a warm washcloth. Maybe wrap the dildo in a towel and put it off to the side. Check in with how your partner is feeling. And, okay, okay, about the poop: There's certainly a chance you'll see some, but the right prep can help. To this point, she suggests dressing the bed accordingly as in, maybe stow away those new white sheets and having wipes on hand.
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