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Is there anything hotter than a woman clad in PVC or a corset with a flogger or paddle in her hand as she stands over her bound submissive partner? With the right partner, props and even costume, that image could be you! Side Note: I put together this in-depth assesment that will uncover just how good you are at giving oral sex and satisfying your man. It may uncover some uncomfortable truths, or you may discover that you are already a queen at giving blow jobs. A lot of guides are going to give you advice about how to submit to your man. But those guides often assume that a male dominant and female submissive are the default way to practice bondage role play — more BDSM tips here — or the only way to do it.
Many women aspire to dominate their men, and same-sex couples can enjoy power exchange, too. Our interviews with dominatrixes should provide an eye-opener. If you want to give your man back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasms that will keep him sexually addicted to you, then you'll find them in my private and discreet newsletter. Get it here. In some instances, however, someone with a genuinely submissive streak may prefer BDSM scenes with someone who identifies as a dominant and going through the motions may not be enough on your part. This can help you decide how dominant you are.
You might find that you prefer being on the receiving end or even that you enjoy both sides of play. Try our helpful guide to BDSM. Occasionally, you may run into a man who declares, usually in a pompous manner, that women cannot be dominant. Feel free to walk away without any further exchanging of pleasantries. Whether it was your idea or not, you might wonder what the appeal of sexually dominating another person is. You might feel turned on but also a bit uncomfortable when it comes to the idea. After all, why would someone do that?
When it comes to the appeal, it could be that donning these roles helps us escape our everyday life, whether the role involves giving up or taking control. And while he was specifically looking into fantasies, and not the reality of BDSM, it seems reasonable that it could translate. Furthermore, while some of the femdom techniques might seem unpleasant or even cruel to your partner on the surface, you need to look beyond that. While you get something from female domination, your partner gets something from submitting.
In fact, sometimes a dominant does something for their submissive, and it can be an act of love and care as is often the case with gentle femdom. Some people may even argue that domination is always a service! In one paper, Seung-hoon Jeong describes femdom as follows [ 2 ]:. If you are new here, then you may want to take the quiz below to learn how good you are at giving oral sex and satisfying your man. You may discover you that you suck pun intended or that you are already a blow job queen.
Femdom fills in such an existential black hole, while opening a rabbit hole into a wonderland of sexual fantasies where subs can put down their social burden and jump into a thrilling new life by only serving and obeying dommes who take all control and make all decisions. You can take safety precautions such as negotiating the scene beforehand perhaps with a contract , using a safe word, and following up with aftercare to minimize the risk of adverse effects when you play together.
You and your man can figure out a BDSM checklist to know what you both want to try. Learn the rules that keep BDSM safe, sane, and consensual. You can find out much more in this in-depth BDSM and femdom for beginners guide.
These are all good femdom rules, too. On the other hand, you may see lots of leather and latex, BDSM furniture, dungeons and impossibly rough sex. These things are made to entertain and arouse us without necessarily being realistic. All those things can be fun if you like them, but there is no rule that says you need to dress, act, or speak a certain way to be a domme. Nor do you need to spend a bunch of money to buy items to outfit your dungeon.
Similarly, you can figure out your sexual personality with our sexual blueprint test. Foot Worship — Is there anything more subservient than an adoring partner kissing or licking your shoes? Plus, prodding, kicking, or stepping on him is one way to literally put your foot down in this relationship! More info on cock rings. For the ultimate in cock and ball bondage, consider a cage, which wraps his genitals in plastic or another material and prevents him from fully growing hard.
This is a great option if you know your partner has trouble listening to directions! And others hate it. Make sure to remind him of how pretty, girly or even weak he is. Along with these femdom ideas, you can come up with a feminization of his name or a nickname to use during play.
Check out this post about spanking for more information about methods and tools you can use. Bondage — Bondage is something that everyone should try in the bedroom at least once, and there are plenty of options when it comes to tying up your own lover. You can bind his wrists or ankles together with regular cuffs or invest in a hogtie system to bind all four together behind his back and really stretch his body out! Under-the-bed-restraints make it easy to turn your bedroom into a sexy dungeon.
Check out this post with more bondage info. Other bondage devices include gags, which prevent him from speakinn. A particular type of gag that can be especially effective for humiliation is shaped like a penis. You can also try blindfolds, ankle spreaders that force his legs open, or nipple clamps. More info about clamps in this guide. Teasing — The final element that every femdom scene needs is a little teasing. This will push him to his limits. Teasing can take place as the lightest of touches. Consider a feather tickler if you want to barely touch his skin.
Of course, many male submissives take a delicious yet painful glee by not being able to touch or taste their dommes, and masturbating in front of him might be the perfect way to tease him! Make sure that your submissive partner learns his manners. He should thank you for those opportunities. Finally, you might require him to address you a certain way. Cuckolding — Cuckolding is a fetish wherein men take pleasure in watching their partners have sex with others this makes him the cuckold. If you want to go all the way, you can initiate with another man known as the bull while your submissive partner watches.
Make it more sadistic by not letting your man watch. Describe the men you meet who might make a good bull. You can even go someplace public and flirt or dance with another guy. Take control by forcing him to be the cuckold. Psst, are you looking for more light femdom ideas? Check out this guide to sensual domination. Orgasm Control — Orgasm control is one of the most popular femdom ideas! As the domme, you get to choose when — and if — your man gets to come!
He might need to perform specific tasks or earn points to earn an orgasm. Or you may put off his orgasm for as long as possible. Get inspired by reading this post about orgasm denial. One form of orgasm control is edging, where you bring him to the brink of orgasm time and again. You stop stimulation or do something to prevent orgasm before doing it again. Once you finally let him come, the orgasm can be explosive!
Finally, man people enjoy playing with ruined orgasms , an activity in which you prevent or make orgasms less intense. It makes for a great punishment! A submissive can serve you in a variety of ways from bringing you food and drink to massaging you to cleaning to shaving your body. You can even make him paint your nails — and his as well!
There are a ton of femdom ideas within service, and you can also incorporate femdom training as you teach your partner exactly how you want each act performed. Humiliation — While not every male submissive likes to be humiliated, it is a common enough theme, which makes it a great dominatrix idea. Similarly, body humiliation can do the trick.
Other men may prefer humiliation ideas that focus on his performance as a provider and traditional gender roles. You can even humiliate a guy by making him wear clothing or accessories in public. Make him shave his legs before he leaves the house. Even in private, forcing him to perform sexual or feminine acts such as dancing or wearing makeup can be super embarrassing. Finally, consider commanding him to lick up his own cum after he orgasms.
You can take pictures or video of any of these activities to use as a threat if he misbehaves. Degradation — This goes along with the femdom idea above. Calling names or using certain insults puts you in control. Bathroom Control — Most people can use the bathroom whenever they like, but having to ask for permission makes a person incredibly humble.
Just remember to allow your partner to go often enough to remain healthy. The normal range for passing solid waste is from three times a day to once every three days [ 3 ], and holding it in may lead to impacted bowels.
Any method you can use to apply pain can do the trick. Consider pouring hot wax. Important: Use only wax that melts at a low temperature such as that in massage candles to prevent burns. Remember, too, that arousal changes how we experience pain. Obviously, cock and ball torture is more advanced and carries a bigger risk than merely putting someone in a blindfold.
Anal Play and Plugging — For many guys, the idea of anal play is a bit humiliating. It contradicts with their idea of masculinity and power. This makes it an excellent dominatrix idea and one that you can customize to your liking. For example, you can incorporate butt plugs and anal be or penetrate him anally with a dildo and harness this is known as pegging, and you can find out more about it here.
Consider making him prepare for anal play by cleaning and shaving and perhaps inserting a plug as he goes about his daily business. Guys who get off on any negative feelings they might have about anal play will enjoy this aspect. However, the sensitive organ known as the prostate can also be stimulated via the anus , which makes this idea for dominating your man extra pleasurable. Plus, you get to feel powerful as you experiment with this femdom technique! Oral — Of course, you can demand that he go down on you whenever you want.
However, you can use oral to achieve femdom humiliation, too! You can critique his skills, comment on how the dildo is bigger or more satisfying than him, and make him penetrate himself with the dildo afterward. It might take a bit to figure out how to make your commands and punishments work over the phone, but brainstorming can really get your juices flowing.Fem dom fetish
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